My sixteen year old granddaughter
got her driver’s license last week. Her mother, my daughter, is finding out the
hard way that having a license and being prepared to drive are two distinctly
different things.
My granddaughter is a very smart
girl. We were all convinced that she would be a good and safe driver, her only
faults being her tremulous fear of pulling out into oncoming traffic (at a safe
distance rather than waiting until there’s not a car in sight) and erring on
the side of caution at crosswalks (as in realizing that she doesn’t have to
wait until the person walks safely all the way into the mall before pulling
ahead). What my daughter was not prepared for was her daughter’s absolute lack
of a sense of direction as well as her inability to find her way to such
seemingly simple places as say, SCHOOL!
Consequently, my daughter has spent this past week tied to her cell phone as
she waits for her daughter to call to say that she is, once again, lost.
When my daughter called me to
share her frustration and ask for advice, I admit that I laughed. But I also suggested
a quick lesson in map reading as well as a proviso that my granddaughter’s cell
phone be banned in the car at all times, including while riding as a passenger.
It is my firm belief that a huge contributing factor in her inability to find
her way around her own home town is that my granddaughter has had her nose
buried in her cell phone for the past five years. She, like every other person
her age—all new or soon-to-be drivers--is so consumed with texting and tweeting
and updating her status that she pays no attention at all to her surroundings. And
paying attention to your surroundings is one way to stay safe while also being
able to find your car in a crowded parking lot.
I can imagine that at this point you’re
probably wondering why I’m writing about my granddaughter’s driving travails,
wondering if I, too, have lost my way. Well, it occurred to me this morning as
I sat at my desk pondering my next marketing plan that my granddaughter and I
have a lot in common. We are both newly minted drivers with no sense of
direction.
While it’s true that I have no
difficulty driving from my house to the grocery store, I am a published author
with a book to market and I have absolutely no idea how to drive it from point
A (Amazon.com) to point B (my target audience). Just as my granddaughter has been
driven to school day after day for nearly a decade, trusting that the driver
knew the way, I’ve been buying from Amazon.com with no thought for how to market
using the same site, trusting that I would figure it out easily when the time
came for me to drive. But it’s not that easy. Just because I know how to use
the site to buy doesn’t mean I know how to use it to sell. The roads look
different from this side. They lead to unfamiliar territories of marketing and
I find myself driving in circles looking for an interesting place to park; or driving
up and down the interstate looking for road signs with a big flashing arrow
pointing to Success.
For the past fourteen months, I’ve
had my own nose buried in book after book, my own or someone else’s, and while
I’ve been reading and contemplating literary success, the scenery right outside
my window has been shifting and changing and speeding by. For instance, I received
scores of emails and invitations from Pinterest, all the while reading funny or
clever posts, pictures, and posters from friends and wondering where they’d
found them. So I finally checked it out and created a few boards of my own. Now
I find that what seemed like an innocuous shiny new internet toy is actually a
powerful marketing tool. Who knew? (Savvy marketers, that’s who!)
So, like my granddaughter who has
a new car and photo ID, I have all the right tools to market at my fingertips and
the publishing license to drive my own sales. But having that license doesn’t
give me direction or navigational skills or prepare me for the lines of traffic
that clog the highways and byways on the road to success. I’ve taken a few
wrong turns and ended up on a lonely deserted website with nary a reader in
sight. I’ve lost my way a time or two and wondered if it might be easier to
just hire a chauffeur or ask someone else to do the hard work. Instead, I’m
taking my own advice. I’ve bought a map and I’m learning to read it correctly
this time--with a little help from an expert. I’m adjusting my focus while driving and watching out for changes in
directional flow. And I’m making a pact with my granddaughter that if she keeps
her nose out of her cell phone while driving, I’ll keep my nose out of my next book--at least until we figure out a route that will bring us safely home.
